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Strumming along in Old Havana

June 17, 2015 • By

It’s Sunday morning in Havana. The sky is overcast but the sun’s rays dart through breaks in the clouds. The streets are quiet and overnight rain has left its mark on the pavement. I’m happy to wander the empty streets and absorb the quiet. My favorite part about walking when I travel is taking different paths to my desired destination. Today, I leave my guesthouse and turn left and without a map I am certain to get lost and discover new sights.

People are beginning to stir —the churches are calling and the narrow alleys fill with locals moving from place to place.  I notice some activity and music coming from what resembles a junkyard. I am mistaken. It’s an artist quarter. I’m quickly ushered into a fenced in area where a man directs my attention to several household items converted into works of art by a famous Cuban African artist. My escort moves me through the complex only to leave me in a gallery where I learn the artists’ widow is serving mojitos in the front bar should I wish to partake. I pass on the hospitable gestures and a bit of hustling and dart out of the gallery right into an alley.

My sense of direction on the ground leads me to believe this street will take me to the center of Old Havana. I gaze at the deteriorating balconies and the design of a city once booming with wealth. It’s been fifty years since most Cubans enjoyed abundance and choice. Their lives are simple, yet they seem to appreciate the bits and pieces glued together that the rest of the world takes for granted.

Fantasy-aisle

Artist Gallery in Havana

As I stroll down the alley, an older gentleman fixing what may be a motorcycle tire catches my eye. He is perched on a step outside a door left ajar wearing an “Arizona” baseball cap; a cat gracefully moves between his doorway and the street.

He is disheveled wearing a navy shirt half ducked into his pants, trousers spotted from dirt and the soles of his shoes aged from use. I guess he is poor or possibly homeless but in Havana guessing is better left to the locals. I smile and say, “Buenos días.” He responds in Spanish with an equally meaningful greeting and I tell him I like his hat. He asks if I am American and I respond proudly “sí.” His face lights up and his smile exposes an inviting moment I have witnessed many times during my visit to Cuba. We chat for a few minutes and my new friend puts down his latest project and fully engages in conversation with me. We shake hands and make introductions. He is Tomás and I am Kelly. My name will render him tongue tied for the rest of our time together.

Tomás and I talk about where I am from and what I enjoy most about Cuba (the culture and the music). As if on cue, he excuses himself for 30 seconds, steps into what I now understand to be his home and returns to the porch holding a guitar. Bursting with pride, he asks, “Do you like Glenn Miller?” I nod and he begins to strum the strings to a song I can’t quite make out and then he exclaims, “Nat King Cole” and I’m treated to a jazz performance on the street. People passing by in cars and on bicycles yell, “el cantante, el cantante!” Indeed, he is the singer.

Tomas the professor

Tomas the professor

I am star struck, yet embarrassed that I am the object of his attention.

Tomás sits again and I stand captivated by his talent and his enthusiasm to bring music to the streets of Havana. I clap and smile and ask to take his photo. My guitarist poses grinning from ear to ear turning his face in one direction and then the other as I snap. I try to explain selfie in Spanish and he signals he understands. We pose together. His smile permanently affixed to his face. Tomás places the guitar along his waist and motions for me to wait. He disappears but comes back handing me a business card. I glance at it quickly. Tomás is a guitar teacher. My friend wishes for me to send him a photo by mail and I realize cameras and photos are expensive and a rarity in Cuba. He is as captivated by the moment as I am.

La Guitarra

La Guitarra

At 73, Tomas shares with me stories of life in Cuba from the past to the present and I even receive an overview of the U.S. and Spanish involvement in Cuba. Softly touching my hand to make sure I understand, Tomás describes his love for New York and the United States. Having never stepped on American soil I am impressed how he describes in detail places in New York he has never seen. Through the depths of his vibrant hazel colored eyes, I observe a glimmer of hope as he talks about our two countries. He whispers about progress but in the same breadth expresses trepidation. For Tomás, change cannot come soon enough.

Time passes. The streets of Old Havana call to me. Tomás does not want me to leave. We embrace and he gives me a kiss.  I walk down the alley waving good-bye and promise to send him the photo and visit again soon.

Tomas learns the Selfie

Tomas learns the Selfie


Destinations, North America

Vegas Time

March 21, 2013 • By

It’s that time of year when the clocks spring forward, the tulips bloom, the Irish celebrate and the girls go to Vegas.  While the latter may require much further explanation, March Madness certainly needs no introduction.

This weekend I head to Las Vegas, Nevada with women who not only enjoy basketball but also follow basketball. It started in 2005 with an email chain and an idea about a girl’s trip to watch the NCAA Tournament.  The initial trip culminated with a high roller suite at the Hard Rock Cafe Hotel, a few victories, a celebrity sighting, spirited pranks and many lasting friendships. This year is our ninth annual trip.

Most people do not think of Las Vegas as city to plan a vacation.  They envision the crowds, bright lights, debauchery, gambling (winning and losing) and money. The saying, “What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas” obviously came from somewhere but for me Vegas is about a rite of passage.

Each spring, I board a plane, walk down an aisle and sit anxiously for six hours for love of sport.  For my eight comrades and me, Vegas is basketball. It’s about spending time with talented and successful women who share a common goal – for their team to play in the Big Dance.  We arrive on Thursday and the initial start of the tournament decked in college gear – some of us fortunate our late 90s apparel still fits – and gather for a pre-game or in most cases post-game weekend strategy.  Should the reader forget we are women, we do arrange dinners, shopping and pool action but for the greater part of the time, we watch basketball.  We predict scores, ooh and ahh at heroic 3-point shots, hold our breath with four-second clock time outs and rest a sigh of relief when the clock hits 0:00 and the score is in our favor.

Where else would it be acceptable for a alumni from the University of Michigan, Duke University, Michigan State University, UMass and University of Virginia, to sit around the same table and cheer on their team? Let me give you a clue.  There are lights – lots of them but mostly those glowing from the LCD and HDTV screens in the sports books, there is food, gambling, free drinks (gambling does pay) and lots and lots of men doing what they do best on game day staring blankly at the great and powerful scoreboard.

Las Vegas is the only place where a fan can be on sensory overload with East vs. West and Big 10 vs. PAC 10, Big East vs. that conference that no longer exists for 24-hours a day.  While it’s true the odds are often against us, my friends and I live by this rule of thumb:

We are only as good as the next parlay and the next round of games.  We are mothers, wives, girlfriends and single ladies on the prowl.  In 2004, we started off the strip and in 2013 we own the strip.  There have been four marriages, eight babies, and a few missed trips but overall there have been many more W’s than L’s in the columns of life.

Good luck to all your teams and remember school pride is at stake.

To Nicole, Jess, Em, Hills, Cousin Liz, Cristina, & Jamie and Vegas Bill, thank you for being the best the City of Lights has to offer.  We may be short a few originals but it’s great to be back – for the weekend.